Hot Mess

Hot Mess (noun phrase / US Slang)

(Also heard as: Hot mess express, Total hot mess, A hot mess)

Definition:

A hot mess is a person or situation that is chaotic, disorganised or falling apart, often in a funny or endearing way.

Where Hot Mess Comes From:

It comes from the older US phrase “hot mess” for a hot meal served to soldiers. By the 2000s it became slang for a chaotic person, helped by TV shows, and then spread everywhere through social media.

How People Actually Use Hot Mess:

Used about yourself or friends: “I’m a hot mess today”. It can be teasing, self-deprecating or sympathetic, and is often said with a smile.

Is Hot Mess Rude?

Mild. It can sting if said about someone who is really struggling, so tone matters.

Examples in the Wild:

• “I overslept, spilled coffee and lost my keys. Total hot mess.”Meaning: My morning was chaotic.
• “She’s a hot mess but we love her.”Meaning: She is chaotic but lovable.
• “The group chat is a hot mess today.”Meaning: The group chat is full of chaos today.

Similar Slang:

Shambles, Lost the Plot, Menty B, Cooked

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