Love Bombing

Love Bombing (noun / verb / Internet Slang)

(Also heard as: Love-bombing, Love bombed)

Definition:

Love bombing is when someone showers a new partner with excessive affection, gifts and attention very early on, often to gain control. It is seen as a warning sign in dating.

Where Love Bombing Comes From:

The term was used in the 1970s to describe cult recruitment tactics. In the 2010s and 2020s it spread through psychology talk and social media as a dating red flag linked to manipulative relationships.

How People Actually Use Love Bombing:

Used when someone is being unusually intense too soon: “he said he loved me after two dates, that’s love bombing”. People also use it about friendships and workplaces.

Is Love Bombing Rude?

It is an accusation, so it can be serious. It describes controlling behaviour, so it should not be used lightly.

Examples in the Wild:

• “He sent flowers every day and said I was his soulmate in a week. Love bombing.”Meaning: Too much affection too soon, a warning sign.
• “Be careful, that sounds like love bombing.”Meaning: It might be a manipulation tactic.
• “I got love bombed, then ghosted.”Meaning: Intense attention followed by silence.

Similar Slang:

Red Flag, Ghosting, Gaslighting, Breadcrumbing

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