Spill the Tea (phrase / US Slang)
(Also heard as: Spill the tea sis, Tea, What is the tea?)
Definition:
Spill the tea means to share gossip, secrets or interesting news. If someone says “spill the tea”, they want you to tell them the full story. The word “tea” on its own means gossip, so “what is the tea?” asks what has been going on.
Where Spill the Tea Comes From:
The expression is rooted in Black American and drag culture. The letter “T” was used for “truth”, and “tea” spread from there. It went mainstream through reality TV and social media in the 2010s, helped by drag shows such as RuPaul’s Drag Race, and it is widely understood in the UK as well.
How People Actually Use Spill the Tea:
Friends use it when they want gossip: “you went on a date? Spill the tea.” It can also be used in headlines about celebrity news. The phrase is playful and mainly lighthearted, though the gossip itself might not be.
Is Spill the Tea Rude?
No, it is casual and friendly. Gossip can be unkind, but the phrase itself is not.
Examples in the Wild:
- “You look shocked. Spill the tea.”
Meaning: Tell me what happened.
- “I have the hottest tea about work.”
Meaning: I have juicy gossip.
- “No tea, no shade, but he was late again.”
Meaning: I am just stating the facts.
Similar Slang:
Snitch, Chirp, Facts, Chinwag, Cuppa, Gossip
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